謝謝您 • 可愛的手信

i never receive any parcel from Japan b4!! woooo......so excited ar!!! it's from my sweetest friend Bonnie :) she went to japan for vacation and send me these lovely 手信!!!



i will take good care of the lavender egg, hopefully it will grow up fast la.. haha and also, i LOVE the little japanese fan postcard~ thank you so much for everything... hehe

愛不釋手

for the past few weeks, i've been reading all those cellphone reviews on different sites, doing all the research and most important....calculating my budget for a perfect new cellphone, and yesterday, i made a decision and i got it.... hehe

i can only describe my feeling towards this S500i with 4 words --- 愛不釋手 !!!!

i have to thank hun for walking back and forth with me and bargaining for my phone... i really appreciated... hehe muah >3<>The Dark Knight!! we didn't watch it last week cos we wanna avoid the crazy crowd and lineups, but unfortunately, yesterday was the same as last week!! it was packed!!! anyways, it was a brilliant movie and honestly i love Joker more than Batman.... Heath Ledger's performance was amazing and i just can't accept the fact that he passed away... sigh.... what a great actor...

by the way, which one is the true story behind Joker's scar??

6 種性格的人容易離婚

一、聽從父母型。心理不成熟，當婚姻生活出現任何波動時，首先向自己的父母尋求支援和指示，卻不與伴侶商量想方設法解決問題。因而失去了夫妻之間的信任感。

二、多愁善感型。以女性為多數，往往為生活上的一些小事情多愁善感，身體略有不適就不斷為“想像出來”的疾病而訴苦抱怨，要引起伴侶的注意與關懷，往往弄巧成拙，引起伴侶的厭煩而分手。

三、浪漫型。對婚姻充滿幻想，認為婚後的生活要永遠像戀愛時那樣彌漫著夢幻般的激情。但是婚姻絕非他們想像的那樣，而是要挑起建設家庭的重擔，為共同的幸福付出最大的努力和必要的犧牲。一旦現實生活無法滿足夢幻時，便會出現摩擦衝突。

四、挑剔型。這種人往往對伴侶的言行不斷按照自己的要求去挑剔，並會不厭其煩地嘮叨與指責，使伴侶處於無地自容的地步。當伴侶被挑剔得忍無可忍時，便會造成婚姻破裂。

五、吝嗇型。這種人不但自己省吃儉用，還要求伴侶勤儉節約。為此，家庭生活中應有的享受、娛樂都被取消，甚至生活上必要的開支也隨之減少，結果伴侶無法忍受這種苦行僧的生活而告吹。

六、寵愛型。這種性格的人對伴侶過分遷就寵愛，大小事都一手包辦，惟恐服侍不周到。長此以往，伴侶養成一種受寵的習慣，如偶然“侍奉不周”，便會成為婚姻戰爭的導火線。

From:
http://ladies.sina.com.hk/cgi-bin/nw/show.cgi/81/4/1/261808/1.html

if that's true, 90% of female will be EASY to get a divorce... rest of the 10% who stays in a marriage without the above 6 種性格 , they are SAINTS... hahahaaa... :D

well...... it's just my personal opinion...

have a great weekend everyone!!!

目標正確，走錯方向

another article wanna share... :)

(星島日報 7月22日 星期二 06:30)

人生最諷刺的悲劇，莫過於此。

日前不是剛說起：「尋找生命中的目標」？原來真的有人很早就立志，目標經已訂下。

可惜走錯了方向。

像有位年輕朋友，自幼立志寫作，希望做一位作家。

這個目標很清晰，可是不知為何，朋友竟誤打誤撞地加入傳媒，後來竟成為記者。

沒錯記者亦要寫稿，但寫的是報道稿訪問稿甚至是譯稿，跟朋友「做作家」的目標，完全是兩回事。

結果蹉跎了幾年，朋友終於醒悟，即刻趕快辭職，埋頭苦寫，現在總算出了三本書，向正確的方向邁進，希望他將來真的做得成作家。

以上這件事，說出來好像很荒謬，但是在現實中，確實有不少人犯了同樣錯誤。

他們懷着理想的目標，卻不自覺地，往錯誤的方向走去，結果愈走愈錯、愈錯愈遠，到終於知錯的一日，可能已經沒機會再回頭。

一生的時間與精力，就這樣白白的浪費掉。

究竟為甚麼在目標與方向之間，出現如此重大的偏差？

你問一百個人，可能有一百個理由。不過最主要的原因，是老派人所謂的「意軟心活」；現代說法即是意志力薄弱，拿不定主意。

於是馬馬虎虎、渾渾噩噩的過日子算了，這一放鬆，從此就放任自己偏離航道，心裏沒錯仍想着目標，可是雙腳已走上錯誤的方向。

最常見的事例，是女子想結婚及組織幸福家庭。

這是清楚明確到不得了的目標，於是按部就班，順序實行：先是找個喜歡的對象，拍拖交往，兩情相悅，然後開始探討結婚的可能性。

但是對方忽然退縮，或是拖延，或是拒絕。在這關頭，你要決定是否繼續維持這段關係？

有些女子原定目標是結婚，給對方搓揉了幾年，自己又捨不得放手，結果拖拖拉拉，同居十多年，身分曖昧不明，到頭來婚結不成，孩子又生不成，人卻已漸老。

你還記得自己的目標嗎？希望走在正確的方向。

- 靈氣逼人 康子

http://hk.news.yahoo.com/article/080721/3/7aly.html

after i read this article, i just felt....... there's nothing called 錯誤方向... every directions will be right if you can achieved ur goal at the end....

and how can you judge if someone's 目標 is right or wrong?

especially on love relationship... how can you differentiate if that man or woman is the TRUE LOVE and guarantee s/he will take care and love you for the rest of ur life??

this answer will only reveal on the every last day of your life... isn't it? touch wood if you really chose a 錯誤方向/目標... is that mean u will just dead with regrets??

i m not sure about all these.... in my perspective, i will just go with my plan and try my best to reach the goals.... even the result is 錯誤... i will think, o well... at least i tried...

if a person just keep on doubting and nervous about if the direction is right or wrong and stand there doing nothing... i think that's just a waste of time... there will be more regrets after all....

now......... i totally understand what should i do! :) add oil together la!!!

基本上...

忠言... 永遠都是逆耳...

火花不等人

Video: http://www.youtube.com/v/MlP-x6XqkUc&hl=en&fs=1

W600i - R.I.P

you've been with me for 2 years and 5 months... the first day i got you, i was so excited and i can't take my hands off you... i love everything about you...

and.... last friday (11.07.2008)... u broke into two pieces on my hands.... i can't believe it!! :(

i will miss you very much, and i wanna let u to know, YOU are the BEST one among all my EX-phones!

W600i - R.I.P. 2006~2008

Human Mirror

just wanna share something really cool! check out the link below :D
http://en.fubiz.net/ and look for the title Human Mirror


this is a blog i would like to go every day... it's just full of creative inspirations!! :p

Relaxing weekend

the past weekend, me and hun just read and chat for the whole afternoon beside the pond... :) enjoyed nice weather and breeze...


oh and i tried to make a little cake by microwave, my fd back from her honeymoon and bought me a pack of japanese cake mixture... i just need to put an egg with the mixture and put that into microwave for 2 mins. and it's done! :D it taste great too! :P

50 Best Websites

Need to work on Canada day.... sigh.... since i dont have any mood to work on anything, i browse around and when i was listening to TalkOnly http://www.talkonly.net/ , one of the host -Q&A talks about Time.com picks 50 Best Websites of 2008.

Check that link out and u will found many interesting and useful sites from the list :)


my favorite from the 50 Best :P are:
ffffound.com : distinctive galleries of random and beautiful photos and illustrations!! very cool!!
Hypebeast : latest news on limited-edition sneakers, outfits and accessories
Omiru : fashion trends site
Health.com : health knowledge site
Mint : free personal finance software!
Nymbler : searching for NAMES for babies, this should be a very useful site for parents :)

there are many more.... just go to Time.com to check it out :)